My-oh-so-boy-friends

I am more than sure that all of you have a boy or guy friend/bestfriend out there. That someone who is not your BOYFRIEND but your BOY FRIEND. Yup, that's two different things. To share you, I am an only child though I have step siblings on my father side, I haven't met them yet due to personal reasons. So basically, I grew up without siblings but boy cousins of course.. Plus boy-friends. 

And these past few days, I have been spending a lot of time with them, or maybe they are really the ones who sit beside me. Hahaha! Or am I the one?! Lol.

There's actually no problem about it because they are your friends--no matter what gender it is, they are your friends. But I guess the situation sometimes gets complicated whenever you are spending too much time with them more than your girl-friends. And that moment when people are becoming (too) judgemental to the point that whenever you're with different boy (friend) or with them by group, people will probably say that you're such a flirty girl. Yup, reality, isn't it?! Then after the girl has heard someone called her that, she will either cut the communication at all or ignore them at school. 

Luckily, I haven't heard someone yet who called me that even my friends haven't heard from someone also. But the point is, it's like someone who judges you by your face--are you gonna be affected by it? This may sound like for 11-12yo but sometimes we actually do experience being affected by someone else's opinion. 

But no way in earth you should  ignore them just because of other people's opinion! As long as you know yourself you DON'T DO EXTRA EXTRA SILLY THINGS (silly things become more exciting whenever you're with your boy friends haha), YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF. But of course, you must also know your limitations. 

I am blessed to have true boy friends. Those guys who are willing to comfort me and treat me like a real sister! 

No matter if you're just a friend or one of the boys, you must be proud. Because I'm telling you, honestly, true boy friends ARE SO HARD TO FIND.

I know I am not that blessed when it comes to having a real boyfriend (plus I don't like to have one just yet), I am super lucky to have these boys! <3 

Carpe diem! Don't hesitate to tell your friends how much you love and treasure them! 

Miss Little Tall Girl Named,

Bea